I was so worried that I had just wasted money on RAM that wouldn’t work with my motherboard. But thanks to user bkeuba011 over on Tom’s Hardware, I’ve got it up, running, and stable. The key is to leave everything on Auto in the BIOS except for the following settings:

DRAM Frequency:  1600 MHz
DRAM Voltage:  1.74
DRAM Timings:  9 9 9 24

http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/255670-29-asus-m4a79t-deluxe-skill-ripjaw-128000cl7d-optimizing